Drama in Twin Flame Relationships

Drama in twin flame relationships happens for many, many couples in union.

If the twin flame couple doesn’t deal with strong emotions properly, there will be tons of drama and chaos.

Contrary to popular belief twin flame relationships are not like romance novels and fairy tales for most on this journey.

TWIN FLAME RELATIONSHIPS ARE FAR FROM PERFECT

Many twin flames start their relationship expecting smooth sailing, where everything clicks along perfectly. Sadly, it seldom it happens this way. Instead they get something that resembles a nightmare. They don’t expect the acting out, fighting, denial or the obstacles and challenges.

They believe if this was the universe’s great plan for their lives, the plan would guarantee a positive, happy ending. Many people who experience relationship drama with their twin flame believe the universe is actually punishing them. They ask us why the universe brings this heartache into their lives.

Why does the universe bring spiritual connections that come with so much drama? How does something that can make us so happy, instead bring so much misery? Why does the universe’s plan turn out so badly? Couldn’t they have picked a twin flame that doesn’t come with tons of chaos?

The universe provides a twin flame for you, and you for them. The universe controls that choice by making sure you cross paths to establish your connection. And then the universe backs off. It’s up to each of you to create the spiritual union. Sadly, many, if not most, create one with drama.

So why do twin flame unions come with so much drama?

Well it’s the intense emotions and longing that contribute to the creation twin flame drama.

The emotion of love is not the cause of drama in twin flame relationships. It’s fear. Why does a couple experiencing such a connection allow themselves to be filled with fear instead of faith?

Twin flame relationships come with triggers that set off deep-rooted insecurities and issues we have buried or chosen to ignore. If we don’t embrace what we need to change, we open the door to negativity and drama.

For instance, let’s say your twin flame has trust issues. Upon meeting they feel the instant connection and are aware there’s something special between you. They may even acknowledge you’re in spiritual union.

You would think that should help them overcome their trust issues, right? Yes and no. If they have faith in the connection, they trust the connection and it’s easier for them to trust you. This may be one of the lessons the universe wants them to learn and what they need to address for their personal growth.

If, on the other hand, they don’t have faith in the connection, they won’t trust the connection.

They will fear it.

As that fear grows, their ability to distrust you grows and the drama grows.

With all twin flame relationships a certain amount of drama can be expected and is no cause for alarm. If your relationship has more drama than a reality show, it’s time to do some damage control.

The less drama in your relationship, the happier you both will be. Because you’re right in the midst of it, you may not be able to see your way out of it. We, as twin flame coaches can help you steer clear of drama and get your relationship on the right track.