Many people use guilt trips to manipulate partners, even twin flames.
It’s one thing to feel guilty for doing something wrong to your twin flame. It makes sense to feel remorse if you have hurt them.
Guilt trips are another matter altogether. Twin flames can use guilt trips in order to get what they want. They may want you to feel overly guilty for little things they can use against you.
When a twin flame uses guilt trips to get their way, or to get attention, they won’t stop by themselves. Once they see guilt trips work in their favor, they will use them against you as often as they like.
WHY USE GUILT TRIPS?
We all have the desire to express our feelings of hurt when a twin flame makes us feel bad. We communicate to resolve the issues and move forward. But this is not what your twin flame intends. They pretend to be more hurt than they are and want you to feel worse than you should.
In doing so, they can get the attention they seek and the reward they want. If someone experiences too many guilt trips, resentment will build. They recognize the guilt trips and the manipulation. They tire of feeling guilty for every little thing and emotionally distance themselves.
This will cause the deterioration of a spiritual union. We all know right from wrong and we all screw up. But the constant badgering that one spiritual partner does to the other that pushes the relationship over the edge. No one likes manipulation. And no one likes the manipulator after a while either.
HOW THEY WORK
There are many examples of how this is used to control or manipulate a twin flame. A common way they use guilt trips is by using the connection itself. For example: Let’s say Bob screws up royally. He is to attend a party with Brenda, but he is a no-show. Then he’s silent for a week, never calling or texting to explain his failure to appear. By the second week, Brenda is really pissed off.
Bob never calls her back and seems to vanish from the face of the earth. So she makes one last call and leaves a message saying she won’t tolerate this behavior. The relationship is over. So then Bob uses a guilt trip by texting back “I was going through a rough spot (insert excuse) and was going to contact you. I thought you would be more understanding than this, you said we were twin flames, and nothing could break our connection, but I guess not. I thought we meant more to each other than to resort to breaking up over the phone but I was wrong.” Now Brenda’s worried if she went to far too soon without speaking to Bob.
It’s shocking to know how much this type of guilt trip happens between twin flames. They use the soul connection as a way to constantly avoid consequences. They will also use it to keep their significant other from leaving them. How can you avoid being taken on a twin flame guilt trip?
AVOIDING GUILT TRIPS
Well first of all, if you’re the only one who feels guilty, you’re being taken on a guilt trip. You know right from wrong. If it really is a minor mistake or misunderstanding, there’s an easy resolution. You shouldn’t be punished for every little thing when your twin flame majorly screws up and expects you to brush it off as no big deal.
Never feel guilty for refusing to take anyone’s mistreatment of you. Express your pain or hurt, but do it properly. But neither one of you has the right to beat it to death over and over and bring it up year after year after year.
Guilt trips are like poison to twin flame relationships. So don’t fall for them and don’t use them with your spiritual counterpart.