Are Twin Flames Meant to Be?

Meant to be often gets confused with meant to meet. There is a huge difference between the two.

The universe allows and sets the stage for twin flames to meet. The higher powers be decide where and when they come together. But it’s up to the twin flames if they make it long term. It’s also up to the couple to define the quality of their relationship.

Are twin flames meant to be?

To a certain degree, yes they are. The connection between the two twin flames is meant to be. But it’s always for a reason. That reason is not just to have a romantic relationship.

The relationship you have with your twin flame is based upon your ability to learn and grow from lessons that present themselves. If either of you fail to learn, grow, and evolve, the relationship becomes unhealthy.

Drama and dysfunction cause a lot of pain and heartache. But if both of you embrace the opportunity to grow as individuals, and go further along your twin flame journey, the relationship is positively amazing.

The meeting of twin flames is meant to be.

The Universe creates the connection as well as the reasons behind it. And they will support the connection and meeting of the two twin flames. But what becomes of the connection, after the meeting, is not the universe’s responsibility. This is the part that’s not meant to be.

There are some beliefs that melodrama and bad behavior in some twin flames are part of the process. It’s not true, because they don’t have to be.

The choices each twin flame makes will create the outcome for the relationship . These choices also create the positive or negative dynamic of the relationship.

We’ve spoken to, and heard from, hundreds of thousands of twin flames over the decades. Yes, there are numerous couples who have no major drama or issues in their relationship. They’re willing to face the challenges, overcome obstacles and learn their lessons. The couple doesn’t fight the process. They manage to change and evolve on their spiritual path. Although their relationships aren’t perfect, they’re not melodramatic messes either.

There’s no cheating, no going back to exes and no break-ups. Neither of them deny or abuse their connection. But it’s not meant to be that way for them. They make it work out beautifully. They reap the rewards for their hard work and efforts.

The Universe gives all twin flames an opportunity to work out.

Any failures are due to the individuals in the twin flame partnership, not some mystical force beyond their control. This may upset some people, but it is the truth. It may not be your fault things between you and your twin flame are going south. But it is your twin flames fault, isn’t it? The reason why a lot of twin flames do have major issues is because of the large gaps that often occur in their spiritual path. One is usually way further along on their spiritual path than their twin. The one who is behind is usually the cause of the drama too.


A spiritual relationship needs spiritual behavior to drive the relationship forward. Faith and love must be part of the twin flame journey. Having faith and love helps the relationship stay on course. And any deviation from that course will cause chaos.

The Universe supports twin flame couples who do the right things. They will aid wherever they can. But the Universe won’t support any relationship that’s full of lower level behaviors and lack of faith.

Why would they?

It’s not theirs to fix. So if you want the Universe’s help and guidance, you have to get on board first.

It’s truly amazing to be a part of a twin flame connection. Twin flames are rare and a gift from the universe. There’s no comparison to the deep feelings, level of intimacy and understanding they share. How can you not believe a higher power creates a union like this once you experience it for yourself?

Never lose faith in your spiritual connection. Through that faith you will find the strength you need to do all you can to honor your connection and keep the relationship harmonious.

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